52 Lessons from 52 Years
As I celebrate my birthday, I’m reflecting on the lessons I’ve learned over the years.
Here are 52 lessons, one for every year:
👉🏽The way you package something up is what makes it ‘premium.’
👉🏽Saying no is a power move. Boundaries protect your energy and purpose.
👉🏽Stories are everything. They connect, inspire, and move people to action.
👉🏽The way you speak shapes how others see you. Avoid diminishing language.
👉🏽👉🏽Travel is about the courage, never about the money. Paris is my place to think, dream, and reset.
👉🏽Ask better questions. It leads to richer conversations and deeper relationships.
👉🏽Confidence grows with action. Start before you’re ready.
👉🏽Risk is unavoidable—but manageable. Doing nothing is often the riskiest choice.
👉🏽"Personality isn't Permanent" Identities can and do change.
👉🏽Women need space to tell their stories. Create platforms for them to shine.
👉🏽Invest in your craft. Hire help. Learn one thing in depth. Mastery matters.
👉🏽One good story can change your life. Share yours unapologetically.
👉🏽Multitasking is overrated. Focus creates impact. Imagine Micheangleo answering texts while carving David.
👉🏽Great networking starts with empathy. Be curious, not transactional.
👉🏽Pivoting isn’t quitting. It’s finding a better path.
👉🏽Always pack with intention. Outfit mapping minimizes decision fatigue.
👉🏽Celebrate small wins. They fuel momentum.
👉🏽A mastermind can change everything. Environment design is key to success. I’m currently enrolling for the 2025 class of mine. Apply here
👉🏽Show up for yourself first. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.
👉🏽Confidence isn’t loud—it’s steady. Presence speaks volumes.
👉🏽Every room you enter is a stage. Prepare accordingly.
👉🏽Done is better than perfect. Perfectionism is a delay tactic.
👉🏽Legacy is a daily act. Build it one step at a time.
👉🏽Listen more than you speak. It’s where real connection happens.
👉🏽Vulnerability is strength. It invites others to trust you.
👉🏽Perspective is everything. A challenge is just an opportunity in disguise.
👉🏽Anchor your day with gratitude. It shifts your mindset.
👉🏽Mentorship is a two-way street. Learn as you teach.
👉🏽You’re never too old to reinvent. Age is a number, not a limitation.
👉🏽Let your work speak for itself. Consistency builds credibility.
👉🏽Surround yourself with dreamers. Their energy is contagious.
👉🏽Silence can be powerful. Learn when to pause.
👉🏽Your voice matters. Use it to advocate for change.
👉🏽Find beauty in the ordinary. It’s everywhere if you look.
👉🏽Nothing beats the power of live events. In-person connections are irreplaceable.
👉🏽Write your own script. Don’t let anyone else define your story.
👉🏽Big goals start with small steps. The biggest weight at the gym is the front door.
👉🏽Focus on what you can control. Let go of the rest. Everyone has trauma.
👉🏽Every 'no' makes room for a 'yes.' Ignore the 'good' and make room for the 'great'
👉🏽The right questions unlock solutions. Be curious.
👉🏽Success looks different for everyone. Define yours before comparing.
👉🏽Be your own advocate. Tuck scripts in your back pocket to help.
👉🏽Make time for reflection. I've journaled everyday this year and the key question I ask "What did you learn?"
👉🏽Celebrate others. There’s enough room for everyone to shine.
👉🏽Your network is your net worth. Build it anywhere and everywhere you go.
👉🏽Don’t underestimate the power of visuals. I tell my public speaking clients to attach pictures to their talks, like a movie to help remember it.
👉🏽Embrace your roots. They’ve shaped who you are.
👉🏽It’s okay to change your mind. Growth often requires it.
👉🏽Courage is contagious. When you take risks, others will too.
👉🏽You don’t need permission to start. Just go.
👉🏽Every stage of life is a gift. Embrace it fully.
👉🏽The best is yet to come. Always believe that.
Thank you for being part of my journey.
What lessons have stood out to you this year? I’d love to hear them. 💫
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